Health Coaching

Nourishing Relationships

Tuesday, July 12th, 2011

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This past weekend I was in Maryland for a close friend’s wedding. It was a beautiful and memorable weekend – perfect weather, delicious food and the kind of music at the reception that keeps you moving on the dance floor. Despite the perfection of the entire weekend celebration, my favorite part was the time I got to spend with my camp friends. I’ve known these girls since the very beginning of my time at sleep-away camp – long before the days of SAT scores, job interviews, financial independence, proposals and weddings. Today we are scattered all over the country so it is very rare that the 6 of us are all under the same roof at the same time.


The wedding weekend in Maryland got me thinking a lot about relationships. They come in all different shapes and sizes – romantic, platonic, workplace, family, etc., but what they all have in common is that they all require work in order to exist. With a little (or probably a lot of) hard work, they feed and nourish us. Our relationships are the fuel we need to get us through the really shitty lows, help us celebrate the life changing highs, and keep us company through the mundane.


I am fortunate to have so many nourish relationships. Sure, sometimes they take more work than others, but at the end of the day, they are all totally worth it.


The weekend flew by and before we knew it Sunday afternoon had arrived and it was time to say good-bye. I’ve been home for about 40 hours and I still feel like I’m on a high. I’ve looked through my pictures countless times reliving the weekend through the images on the screen. I can’t wait to see them all again, although I’m not quite sure when that will be.


That’s the thing about my nourishing relationships – they do more than just make me smile, log minutes on my cell phone, and keep me boarding planes – they feed my soul and keep me feeling alive. They satisfy me in ways that paychecks, vacations, and jewelry can’t.


What are your most nourishing relationships? Do you have relationships in your life that are more draining than nourishing?

Big or Small – You Gotta Celebrate the Good Stuff

Thursday, July 7th, 2011

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Today I successfully completed my last final of the semester! I am now officially done with all of my course requirements for my Master’s degree in Human Nutrition. Wahoo! Sure, I still have comprehensive exams in a few months so I’ll continue spending a lot of my spare time with my textbooks and I haven’t officially completed my MS, but so what?


I need to appreciate and celebrate this milestone.


The way I see it, there are too many uncertainties in life to not celebrate the small stuff. A few years ago I went to bed as a normal, healthy and happy 20-something only to wake up the next day with an incurable lifelong disease. I’ve learned a lot from my UC, but one of the most important lessons I’ve learned and like to remind myself of every day is that life is precious and I never know what tomorrow may bring. And neither do you. So enjoy the good days and find gratitude in all that you accomplish – big and small.


It goes without saying that we celebrate weddings, births, communions, graduations and b’nai mitzvahs. But what about the “everyday” stuff like nailing a presentation at work, finally getting around to cleaning out the garage or breaking out of your food rut and trying a new recipe? These are all accomplishments too and should be celebrated. Just like my little achievement of not quite completing my Master’s, but getting one step closer.


So how did I commemorate this notable day? I went to the local spa and treated myself to a manicure AND a pedicure – not something I do regularly so I savored every minute of it and left feeling relaxed and rewarded. Celebration achieved.


I’m not saying you have to throw a party whenever you take out the garbage, but a little pat on the back never hurts. So get that manicure, treat yourself to a new outfit or whatever that thing is that will give you a little more bounce in your step, because hey, you deserve it.


How do you like to celebrate?

To Caffeine or Not to Caffeine?

Saturday, July 2nd, 2011


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I have a love hate relationship with caffeine. Most days I don’t need or want it. I know that regularly exercising and eating real food keep my body’s energy levels consistent throughout the day. I don’t have super-hyper-and-energetic highs followed by miserable-just-want-to-sleep-under-my-desk crashes like I used to before my diagnosis and changing how I live. But I am still human and sometimes I like the extra jolt of energy that a little caffeine can bring. Especially when I am nearing the end of another semester and have a few hundred pages of textbook reading hanging over my head. Ugh.


The days of one, two or three cups of coffee daily are long gone. I still love the smell and honestly still miss it after all these years, but the havoc that coffee has on my body far outweigh any temporary pleasure. For me, it’s a no-brainer – coffee will never touch my lips.


Since my tolerance for the stuff has dramatically decreased over the years, the most I can tolerate these days is one big cup of green tea. Just a few sips of green tea and I’m in love – suddenly my to-do list doesn’t seem so overwhelming and my textbook reading doesn’t feel like it’s dragging on that much. I don’t even really mind when the jitters start setting in.


Unfortunately, as evening comes I know what to expect – a crash that makes me want to lie on the couch indefinitely, a horrible night’s sleep and feelings of anxiety that I’ve worked so hard to overcome the last few years. My side effects are this extreme from a moderate dose of caffeine that was consumed no later than 10am. Yea, 12 or more hours later and I’m still feeling the effect. That’s what happens when you learn how to listen to your body. You pick up on cues you might have missed in the past.


And yet, I wake up in the morning feeling tired and unmotivated. “Ok, what’s one more run to Starbucks? It will be my last time. I just really need today to be productive.” The health coach in me knows better.


I know what caffeine does to me. I know how lousy it makes me feel after the high has worn off. I also know that balance is important and that I live in the real world. I listen to my body. I know what I can handle and I accept it. No guilt. No apologies.


So when morning comes and I feel like crap I know I better get to the gym, drink lots of water to help keep the headache away and eat my steel cut oats with fruit. I might not feel great that day, but by the following day I’m back to normal.

Summer Three Bean Salad

Monday, June 27th, 2011

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I love to read for leisure, but to honest I have had limited “free time” lately to curl up with a book that isn’t a textbook. But really, who hasn’t been busy lately? I was grateful that when I emailed a handful of ladies in my new community asking if they would be interested in starting a book club, they were totally into it. We are all busy gals so we gave ourselves plenty of time to finish the first book (Bossypants by Tina Fey in case you were curious – hysterical and I highly recommend.) and our first meeting is tomorrow evening.


There are so many times that I finish a book and just want to talk about it with someone! I think it will be great to have this group to read books with – not only is it fun to gab after we’ve finished, but our differences will definitely introduce me to new books that I might not have opened on my own. The meetings are my deadlines – I have to finish the book before the scheduled meeting. Of course this isn’t exactly the same kind of deadline as a journalist at a newspaper, this book club is for fun after all, but being held accountable to the group is an effective way for me to stay on track and make sure that I am taking time for myself on a regular basis in order to finish the book according to our meeting schedule.


Accountability is essential in order to reach any goal – whether it’s finishing a book on time, losing weight, cooking more meals at home, or saving up for that big vacation. Just saying you’re going to do something in your mind makes it easy for your big plans to stay just like that – just as plans. They never materialize into action and results. When you are held accountable then you stay motivated and your plans turn into actions. This is exactly why I love health coaching – it’s effective! My clients are successful because I help them stay motivated and on track to reach their goals. When I started this post I wasn’t expecting to make a connection between book club and health coaching – I just wanted to share a recipe!


So back to book club – the other awesome thing is that everyone pitches in and brings something to eat or drink. I’m bringing a summer three bean salad. I can’t wait to see how the ladies like it!


Ingredients:

1.5 cups pinto beans, cooked or canned

1.5 cups chickpeas, cooked or canned

1.5 cups black beans, cooked or canned

1 small onion, finely chopped

3 large leaves kale, chopped

juice from 1 lemon

2 tablespoons balsamic vinegar

1 tablespoon extra virgin olive oil

1.5 tablespoons honey

1 tablespoon mint, chopped


Directions:

Combine beans and onion in medium bowl.

Steam kale. This should only take a few minutes. The kale is done as soon as it begins to wilt.

Combine lemon juice, balsamic vinegar, extra virgin olive oil, honey and mint in small bowl and mix well.

Add kale to beans and onions.

Pour sauce over beans and onions and mix well.

Serve chilled or at room temperature. OR if you have extra time, you can put the bowl in the refrigerator for a few hours to let the flavors marinade, drain any extra fluid and serve. I made this dish a day in advance, let it sit in the refrigerator over night. Just before book club I pulled it out, drained the extra fluid and put it in a serving bowl. I think it tasted even better then the day I made it.

The Exception. Not the Rule.

Sunday, April 3rd, 2011

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Here’s a confession you don’t often see on a health and wellness blog: I love the movie “He’s Just Not that Into You”. Chances are if you’re reading this post, you’re probably a savvy female so you’ve probably seen it too. What’s not to love? It features some of my favorite actors, who, lets face it, are also extremely easy on the eyes, like Ben Affleck, Jennifer Anniston, Scarlett Johansson, and Kevin Connolly, and the plot is generally relatable for any girl in their 20’s or 30’s.


If you’ve never seen this movie, it’s a story about a group of interconnected twenty and thirty-something’s and their relationships – which are all very similar to your average relationship clichés: the girl that’s been dating the guy for several years, but he doesn’t want to get married, the girl that comes on too strong and waits by the phone for guys to call that never do, the couple that got married too young, the shallow guy that only casually dates beautiful women and the sassy girl that can’t decide between the sexy married guy and her no-sparks standby. The movie is entertaining to watch as the characters learn to stop listening to their friends who encourage their dysfunctional relationships because “things might work out with these dipsticks because they knew someone, who knew someone, who dated a dipstick just like mine. That girl ended up getting married and living happily ever after. That’s the exception and we’re not the exception. We’re the rule.” Sounds like a good lesson to learn to me. Side note: that movie summary took up more space on a screen than I originally anticipated.

 

Ok, ok, so where am I going with this? The concept of “exceptions” and “rules” got me thinking about food and how what used to be considered “exceptions” in the diet not that long ago have become the “rules” today. I realize this is a pretty crazy train of thought, but hear me out.

 

Up until a few generations ago, which is not that long ago considering how old the US is, most meals were consumed at home in a sit-down fashion with other members of the family. Food was homemade. For various reasons including cost, sugar and meat were consumed only on holidays or infrequently each week. You could say that the number of times per week a person consumed meat, sugar or something out of a box was less than the number of times they did. And you know what? People weighed less and diseases like cancer, diabetes and heart disease were a lot less common. Sounds pretty appealing to me.

 

So when I was craving some Southern comfort food, I knew I had to make it myself. The sugar, additives and preservatives added to the prepackaged food-like-substances at the grocery store don’t make the cut for this savvy chick. These baked beans are made with all read food. The food-like-substances for sale at the grocery store can’t say that.

 

I’m not saying all food out of a box is bad for you or dessert should be banned. That’s not realistic and not the key to healthy living and feeling your best, in my opinion. But before you indulge – What is the quality of the ingredients? Are you checking the ingredient list? How often are you eating sugar or meat? Is it a daily thing or hardly ever?

 

Baked Beans

Ingredients:

1 small onion, chopped

1.5 cups pinto beans, cooked or canned & strained

1 big carrot, diced

4 cloves garlic, chopped

2 tablespoons apple cider vinegar

1 tablespoon maple syrup

16 ounces tomato paste

¼ cup vegetable broth

1 tablespoon cinnamon

1 tablespoon paprika

a little chili powder if you want some bite

salt and pepper to taste

optional: 2 organic bacon strips


Directions:

Preheat oven to 350 degrees

In large pan, cook bacon until crispy. Remove from pan and chop into tiny pieces.

Leave grease in pan and add garlic.

If you are not using bacon, pour a splash of grapeseed oil and add the garlic. Cook for 3 minutes. Pour in vegetable broth and add carrots. Cook for 5 minutes.

Add remaining ingredients and stir so that tomato paste evenly coats the beans and carrots.

Turn heat on high and bring mixture to boil.

Place pan in oven and bake until most of the liquid disappears and carrots are cooked – about 25 minutes. Do not cover the pan.

My number one secret to living a healthier life.

Monday, February 21st, 2011

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Here’s a riddle to start off your week. What latest health craze claims to be fat-free, cholesterol-free, low-calorie, super-hydrating, naturally rich in electrolytes and the perfect post-workout beverage? Answer: coconut water – the clear juice stored inside young, green coconuts. Ever try it? I’ll admit that I like the taste, although others might argue that it’s a taste that is acquired. It’s pretty sweet and I’m completely guilty of having a soft spot for sweet flavors. But man is it expensive.


The US industry for coconut water has gone from zero to $35 million within five years. I think it’s safe to say that there’s a marketing department somewhere out there that has been very hard at work. Rich in potassium, part of the marketing behind coconut water is that it is the perfect product to replenish the potassium you lose in sweat during a strenuous workout. While this is true, you also lose more sodium than potassium in sweat, and this also needs to be replenished. Please keep in mind that we are talking about strenuous exercise and serious sweat – not just a “glow”, as my mom likes to call dew-like sweat that doesn’t drip or darken the color of your clothes.

 

Fruits and vegetables are excellent sources of potassium, especially bananas, potatoes, plums, tomatoes, spinach, almonds and sunflower seeds. These foods are a heck of a lot cheaper than prepackaged coconut water too. Plus, unless you’re living in the tropics (and if you are, then you are one lucky duck on this cold February day), fruits and vegetables are going to be fresher closer to your home and depending on the season, a lot more eco-friendly.

 

In my opinion, coconut water is a reasonably good product because it is natural (check the label, some brands are adding sugar) and doesn’t have the additives found in some other sports drinks – but only if you enjoy the taste and it fits into your budget. There is no substitute for real food and clean water, and while you’re getting sufficient amounts of potassium in coconut water, you are getting so much more out of fruits and vegetables – like phytonutrients, vitamins and minerals – in addition to potassium.

 

I remember when I first saw coconut water on the shelves – there was only one brand and one flavor. Today, more brands and more flavors. Here is the ingredient list for the Zico pomberry (berry and pomegranate).


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Ingredients: 100 percent natural coconut water from concentrate, natural flavors, citric acid


While I’m not sure what “natural flavors” really entails, it is probably safe to say that it’s better than aspartame in soda, for example. As for the citric acid, it can ruin your tooth enamel and lead to decay. I’m not sure why that had to be added.


So I guess what I’m trying to say is that if there is one secret (and it’s really no secret at all) I had to share about eating healthy and living well, I would sum it up in one word: “awareness”. Just take responsibility for what you’re putting into and onto your body. Eat meat or don’t eat meat – there isn’t one right answer for everyone, but take the time to learn about where your meat is coming from, how the animal is treated before it’s slaughtered, if it is pumped up with hormones and antibiotics or grass-fed and permitted to roam the pastures the way Mother Nature intended. It makes a difference.

 

The way I see it, if you know what you’re really eating, where it comes from and how it makes your body and mind feel, then it becomes a whole lot easier to make better choices. Coconut water can be great, but don’t let commercials and advertisements tell you what you should be consuming. Lets start with taking responsibility for what we are doing to ourselves, and it all starts with becoming more aware.

Life happens. And sometimes it gets in the way of blogging.

Wednesday, February 16th, 2011

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So you’ve probably noticed there have been fewer-than-usual posts on this blog lately. The thing is, I’m a person that thrives on routine. What’s not to love – it’s reliable and dependable, but the last handful of weeks have been anything but that. First, I had finals for grad school and anyone who has been a student before knows what finals week feels like. Enough said. My 20-year old brother had major surgery and then developed complications, requiring a second emergency surgery and 18 days in the hospital. Talk about stress! While he was in the hospital, I finished finals and my fiancé and I drove to my parents’ house in New York (11 hours from Asheville) to return furniture that I borrowed, give my brother a hug and to celebrate our recent engagement. Oh and did I mention that I am in the process of moving from Asheville, North Carolina to Cincinnati, Ohio? Yea. I’d say my plate has been pretty full lately, but I bet yours is too.


Clients usually tell me that when life gets crazy that’s when they get out of their health-promoting routines like exercising and eating home-cooked meals. Call me crazy, but I find that when life gets nutty these are some of the things that help keep me sane because they are familiar, comfortable and accessible anywhere. With all of the changes going on in my life, like moving to a brand new city, keeping some sense of normalcy and routine makes change feel a little less intimidating and overwhelming. Besides, when we are stressed our immune system is weakened and healthy self-care habits like exercise and a healthy diet are essential to staying well. I can’t think of a more inconvenient time to get the sniffles or the flu then when your plate is packed to the max.


Right now I’m loving hot yoga, especially with the brutal chilly temps that New York has been seeing over the last two weeks, although it looks like it might start feeling more spring-like very soon. Hot yoga is my perfect anecdote for stress and all the sweating forces me to focus on my breathing, which helps to quiet my mind during the 90 minutes of class. What helps you keep it together when life gets ultra-busy?

Trick or Treat!

Sunday, October 24th, 2010

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With Halloween just around the corner, followed by Thanksgiving, Hanukah, Christmas and finally New Years, I think it is fair to say that the “eating season” is about to begin. Sugar is addicting, takes control of our cravings, and has a negative impact on our energy level (just to name a few “side effects”).  The way I see it, Halloween and all of the sugar that has somehow become socially essential to this holiday sets the tone for the remainder of the “eating season”. Why do we allow ourselves, and perhaps more importantly our children, to be gorged with sugar, not just on Halloween but any day? It’s no secret that childhood obesity is a growing health issue in the States, and if we know that sugar is one of the leading contributors to this epidemic, why are we setting the future generation of this country up for failure? As adults we have to take responsibility and that starts with setting the right example. But enough venting. At least for now.


The other day I did something that I haven’t done since I was a child – I carved a pumpkin, and I invited a few friends over to join in the fall festivity. Walking through Target to pick up a few pumpkin-carving kits, I found myself surrounded by Halloween themed paper plates, home décor, and of course, candy. The sugar must have gone straight to my head because I caught myself wondering if I should bring home some treats for my guests. ‘Tis the season, right? After reading through the ingredient list on the back of a few different candy packages I gave up and walked over to the check-out isle and left the store with my pumpkin-carving kits. It occurred to me – if I felt even a drop of pressure to serve candy to my guests then surely moms and women who do not work in the health industry must also feel some sort of guilt and obligation to give in to this disturbing American tradition.


For a healthier Halloween and holiday feasting season, keep the candy (and all things sugar) out of the house. If it isn’t accessible then it can’t be eaten. It’s that simple.


You might be wondering, “How can I satisfy my sweet tooth?” or “How can my family enjoy the upcoming holidays without the candy and baked goods?”. These kinds of questions come up a lot year round with my health-coaching clients. The solution that works best for me is if I make it myself and only use real whole foods than it is ok to eat. This rule of thumb has a direct and deliberate impact on my actions. For example, I have to find the time (which includes buying the ingredients and spending time in the kitchen) to make something sweet and savory instead of dropping an item into my shopping cart, which takes all of two seconds. Guess which one is going to happen less often?


So here are some of my favorite sweet and savory treats that are sure to make your holiday feasting season just as delicious and satisfying. Click on the picture for the recipe.


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Chocolate Cake

Crust:
1 cup walnuts
3/4 cup unsweetened coconut
15 deglet dates (small) or 8 medjool dates (large)

Mousse Filling:

3 avocados
1 teaspoon vanilla extract
3/4 cup cocoa powder
1/4 cup – 1/2 cup water
10 deglet dates (small) or 6 medjool dates (large)

 

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Directions:

I strongly recommend using a high-powered blender such as a Vitamix. The ingredients are very tough to blend well and the crust gets very sticky!
Blend ingredients for crust. I think it helps if you do one ingredient at a time starting with the walnuts and adding to it to make it easiest on the blender. Scoop out and fill bottom of pie pan and up the sides evenly. You need to use your hands for this. It’s pretty sticky.
Blend ingredients for the filling and follow the same method (adding one ingredient at a time). Scoop filling onto pie crust and spread evenly. Any extra can be “icecream”. Put cake in freezer until it hardens. It will never freeze like an ice cream cake does – just firms up a lot. I would plan to let it sit in the freezer for at least 4 or 5 hours.

 

Pumpkin Muffins

Pumpkin Muffins

Date Coconut Cookies

Date Coconut Cookies

Chocolate Chip Cookies

Chocolate Chip Cookies

Tahini Oat Cookies

Tahini Oat Cookies

Apple Pecan Muffins

Apple Pecan Muffins


Asparagus Tabouli

Friday, June 11th, 2010

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I have never had a session with a client where we did not talk about cravings. Our cravings are not something to ignore. There are many reasons why we have them, but one that we often forget about is our ancestry. Where we come from, and the foods our ancestors used to eat can play a role in the type of foods we crave today.


Many of the foods that I crave most can be traced back to my Middle Eastern roots. For example, tabouli used to be a favorite before my UC diagnosis. Tabouli is a very popular Middle Eastern salad, but is typically made with wheat (bulgur), which is a substance that my body does not digest well anymore. When I came across a tabouli recipe on 101cookbooks.com, I decided it was time to try my own version of tabouli.


To satisfy cravings for foods of your ancestors, try a healthier version. This tabouli recipe has a similar consistency to the Middle Eastern favorite, but is a little more nutrient dense. Asparagus is in season right now and is an excellent source of vitamin K, folate and vitamin C. It is good for the heart and digestive system. Asparagus makes a great snack – I like to dip it in hummus, go figure.


Ingredients:

1 cup quinoa, cooked

1 bunch asparagus, chopped into ½ inch pieces

1 cup frozen or fresh peas (not canned)

1 cup walnuts, lightly toasted and chopped


Sauce:

Juice of 1 lemon

¼ cup Extra Virgin Olive Oil

2 teaspoons brown mustard

1 teaspoon water (if desired)


Directions:

Bring 3 cups of water to a boil.

Boil asparagus pieces and peas for 30 seconds – just enough so they soften outside but remain crunchy on the inside.

Strain and let cool.

While the asparagus and peas are cooling, combine lemon juice, extra virgin olive oil, and brown mustard in a small bowl. Add 1 teaspoons of water to get desired consistency.

Combine asparagus, peas, quinoa, and chopped walnuts into large bowl.

Stir in dressing and serve.

The Pleasure Trap

Friday, April 23rd, 2010

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Did you know that if you place a frog in a pan of water, he just sits there? If the pan is heated very slowly and gradually the frog won’t even notice that the temperature of the water he is sitting in is getting warmer. The frog “gets used to” the increasing heat and will likely boil to death if the heat is not turned down because his sensory capabilities fail to warn him that he needs to hop out of the pan in order to survive.


So why am I sharing this gruesome tale with you? We, the American public, have become the frog and the food companies and Standard American Diet (SAD) are like the water. Overtime, we have become more and more dependent on artificial ingredients and processed foods, but because this has been a gradual increase, we hardly noticed. Today, we (as a country) are sick, diseased, exhausted and overweight. The water is near boiling and we have to “hop out” to save our lives. For many, “hopping” is easier said then done.


Convenience, culture, tradition, perception of finances and taste preference “trap” us, even though our current diet is not in our best interests.


I spend most of my day, every day, advising people on how to live a healthier life. I help them understand that eating healthy doesn’t have to leave them with an empty wallet and that healthy foods and tasty foods are not mutually exclusive. The thing is, I am a human too. No human is perfect. We are biologically programmed to seek out the most calorically-dense foods and eat as much of them as possible. A long, long, very long time we had to rely on our opportunities of feast in order to survive during famine. This innate instinct is now confused in our modern environment of super-sizing and drive-throughs. We have an unlimited amount of food available anytime and anywhere.

 

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I know better than to eat sugar and drink caffeine. I know the effects they have on my body, but like I said, I am human too, and no human is perfect. So this week when life got busy, schoolwork piled up and clients were scheduled back to back, I resorted to one of my old habits – caffeine – for that extra boost to get me through. Although I haven’t had a sip of coffee in years, tea has a similar effect on me. The caffeine, felt good initially and I felt energized and empowered to get through my grueling tasks. It didn’t take long before I felt tired, starving and craving sweets. Everything felt out of whack and off balance by the end of the day.

 

The next day, I woke up feeling hungover and sluggish, so what did I do? I put some water on to boil and had a nice hot cup of caffeinated tea – actually, make that plural – cups of tea. I was feeding myself poorly to make myself feel better. Does that sound familiar or may be it’s just me? After another day of this routine, I decided enough was enough and the next morning I woke up and had some hot water with lemon. While not nearly as satisfying at the time, I felt a heck of a lot better by the end of the day, and feeling more like myself. I “hopped” out of the boiling water.


Sometimes it’s easy to get stuck in the pleasure trap because it can feel so good and getting out of it doesn’t initially. The following books provide more information about “hopping” out of the boiling water. The Pleasure Trap by J. Lisle Douglas and Alan Goldhamer and The Yoga of Eating by Charles Eisenstein provide wonderful and insightful information about the motivational factors that cause us to give in to an excessive diet and lifestyle and how to communicate with our body to get on and stay on a healthy, energizing and mindful track.